Contradictions: Black or White?

Heaven and Earth, Man and Woman, Sky and Land...

And the list goes on and on and on.... infinite list of contradictions... 

What? 

What is that which differentiates between yes and NO? 

Between Black and White, lies Grey. Most people don't see that. Between Yes and No, what's that lying? Ah right, MAYBE. Between Heads and Tails of a coin, what lies in the middle is WHEN THE COIN IS STUCK TO A CRACK. 

There is always something between two decisions. 

So, when you actually think of killing yourself, think of the two decisions. Life and Death. So, what lies in the middle? [nyawa nyawa ikan] XD no......in between Life and Death is.....?

who knows, tell me...

I don't know the answer. 

For those who want to suicide and have thought of this question, ponder upon it, because this will actually buy the rescuers or police some time to come to your aid. 

The point is, there is always something neutral for you to follow each time you face some hard times! When you are aiming for Victory when you are Losing, you don't go to the end point just like that. There is just so much more in between Losing and Victory. Aim for whatever lies in the middle. Then, proceed to what lies ahead of you. And slowly, I am sure you will achieve Victory. Some people just strive for Victory when he is at the bottom of the bottle. Then. he will fail! Surely, he will fail. Do you know what the ladder is for? It is to help somebody to climb up to a higher spot from the ground, isn't it? YES! So here you see, even when doing something that simple, just to climb up to the ceiling, you, too, need a ladder! You do not possibly jump up to the ceiling without some work done. You have to search ( work for it )  for the ladder ( the aid ), and then, climb ( make use of it ) the ladder without slipping ( by doing it seriously ). To climb the ladder without slipping, one's foot must step on the whole rung of it ( taking optimum advantage of the aid ) and doing it a step at a time ( going at your own pace ) and at the top, you will sit on the rung ( it is where you have a little rest at the point ). Then you lift your head and your hands up to do the job you're supposed to do ( striving for Victory ). This is the utmost important part. You must be cautious, and look down ( reminisce ) and make sure that no one is there to pull the ladder away ( be careful ). And then, do your job with maximum focus ( focus on Victory ). In the end, you will succeed! You will then climb down the ladder ( harvest the Victory ). Now, there is a difference between climbing down and falling down. Climbing down means that you have completed your job well and are going to harvest your success whereas falling down means you are dropping down to Losing. And remember, after climbing down ( to tell the success story ), you have made a name for yourself. This is just the first step to success. You will teach others your way to Victory, and when you have made names for the people, you, have become, the teacher. The holder, of the greatest title. 

This, is the Victory you have aimed for.